Are the nail through the hand the same pain as first anal sex? Jesus died on cross. How does first time anal sex feels? Is it the equivelant to the nails through the hands of jesus? |
| No, though it can be painful if it's not done right. Using sex toys and finding out what you're supposed to be doing first is a good idea. I've never had a nail through my hand, though I have cut finger-ends off, slashed across my knuckles numerous times with a sharp knife, been stabbed in the shoulder by a shower tile and poured a pan of boiling water all over my arm (though not all at the same time...). Most of the pain is felt after the event in these situations since most serious injuries cause you to go into a state of shock which means you don't feel the pain until later |
How do I make my first anal sex not hurt? I want to try anal but am scared it will hurt. |
Why not get a toy and try anal with your boyfriend first. Men have the prostate gland which gives a lot of pleasure when stimulated, so receiving anal penetration is generally more pleasurable for them than for women. Just because you see women looking like they love it in porn doesn't mean they actually do. They might, but not necessarily. If you really want to do it because you think it will be pleasurable for you, and not because he's pushing you to try it, then as someone else said, you need to work up to it slowly over a number of sex sessions, or it will be really unpleasant, and you need to start with him very carefully inserting his little finger, with a lot of lube, possibly after using his mouth on you to get you relaxed and in the mood first. It's not something you can just do if you're not used to it. Lots of helpful information here -
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What do i do for my first anal sex inconter? I am scared but im giving it up ! Do u have any tips or tricks to do ? |
| My advice is do not do it. |
First time having anal sex, how do I keep my colon area clean? It will be my first time receiving anal soon and Im worried about the horror ' poo splat' stories you hear about.
I know to do an enema, but how long before we have sex?
And any foods I should avoid etc. Any other tips on keeping that are clean.
His pretty well endowed so Im more worried. |
| Enemas are a good idea though they aren't always necessary and available. Obviously you are planning this out and know when this is going to happen so I'd recommend making sure you have "emptied" yourself of as much waste as possible before you have sex. Four out of five times anal sex is clean and only sometimes if it is "dirty" it is very dirty. Make sure you eat healthy foods and not foods that cause constipation such as cheese. Also remember that the average person takes about three days to digest their food entirely. |
How can I make my first time having anal sex painless? How can I make my first time having anal sex painless? |
Lube and relaxation.
Or if you prefer, relaxation and lube.
Lots of both.
Here's what you both can do: lay in a comfy position. Usually, doggie style is NOT a comy position: rather lay on your side with one of your legs bent (scissors style). Try to get as sleepy and relaxed as possible. Ask him to finger you slowly, with his finger drenched (and I mean drenched) in lube. You breathe deep and slow. When you're ready, ask him to drench his penis in lube and start penetrating you -only halfway if he's big- then ask him to stay still right there (no pumping, no pulling out, just stand still). At first you will feel discomfort, it's inevitable: your brain is designed to tell your sphincter (anal muscle) to shut down in order to keep out outside intrusions. But breathe deep and slow, turn off your mind, and eventually your brain will accept the stranger and relax. When you don't feel his penis any longer, ask him to go deeper and stay still again. Relax once more time. At some point you will be ready for him to pump and you won't notice any pain. |
What are some tips on trying anal for the first time? Okay so me and my boyfriend are going to try anal for the first time tomorrow.
I am a girl. I am very interested in trying anal for the first time. what are some
tips I should no for the first time? && what should I prepare for? What will it feel
like and what can relieve the pain. Also; i know this is gross, but Ive heardd that
sometimes girls will sh*t on him while getting anal. what are the chances of me
doing this? |
| Way to go for trying new things!!! Some tips: Have him go really slow and gentle, the worst thing is to go too fast and have it hurt. Use plenty of lubrication (buy anal lube specifically), you also might want to go and buy a couple enemas to clean out that area to make things cleaner and less messy. You should prepare for some intense feelings whether that be a lot of pressure or some pain because sometimes it does hurt (a little or a lot) I would say that if you go to "do it" and he eases it in gently and takes his time that you should try to continue as long as your can even if it is a little uncomfortable .... just have him go slow. What you can also try doing if you do feel pain or uncomfortablenessss is have him go in all the way (w/ you on your side in between his legs) and then just stay there for a while at least a couple minutes and then when you're ready have him go in and out slowly.... the key is plenty of lubrication, patience and having a caring partner. Also yea, there is a possibility that if you dont enema (sometimes even if you do) that there will be some fecal matter on his penis or it may cause you to feel a sense of urgency like you need to go right away... and like someone said there is a possibility that if you have anal sex on a regular basis and your partner is large in size (penis) that it could make it harder for you to retain your bowels.... |
A question for women! How painful is first time anal sex? My boyfriend and I would like to try anal sex for the first time. We've been together for 15 months so i'm very comfortable around him. I'm abit nervous (also very curious) about trying it though because I'd imagine it would be quite painful. Is this true? Whats women's opinions on it?
Thanks! |
the first time i did it, it didn't hurt... we used only spit as lube...he was sitting on the couch and i sat on him facing him..i was in control. i liked it a lot. if u let the guy be in control it can hurt because guys dont realize if they are doing it too fast..or if they are putting it in at a bad angle. bad angles hurt.
well...im way past amateur stuff. that first guy i had anal with i married :) ..and now i can have an orgasm from anal sex alone. iv gotten to where..a little pain doesn't bother me. its just rough kinky sex and i think its fun.
to insure a successful first time id like to suggest a few thing. some of these things are optional but can make it a lot funner and enjoyable. one basic thing: be sure u dont need to go #2. i personally hate enema and any anal rinsing devices..because i hate having water up my bum..its awful. instead all u need to do it use ur fingers a little in the shower to make sure u are clean. also u can try different lubes..some are just slippery and some are made just for anal sex. some numb u up and some help u relax. and u might want to try toys.. something small...or whatever u are comfortable with.
hope this helps! have fun :) |
Does it hurt the first time for anal? Does it hurt the first time for anal sex?
I have been married for 8 years and have four guyren. My husband wants to try anal sex but I have been talking to alot of my friends and they tell me not to try it. They said it does not feel good to the woman and you bleed alot. I am small only 5'4 and around 112 and I they say that makes it alot worse as well. |
yes, it can. However, there are ways to avoid this. You will want to understand the psychological and physical factors at work here.
First, to deal with the physical aspect: plan to use lots of lube.
Second, for the psychological part: when you are alone use the lube and your fingers to experiment. Discover what it feels like and learn what to expect. The goal here is to be able to do this and not be tense or nervous. Take this at your own pace, and if at any time it feels painful remember the lube.
Once you are comfortable with the how anal sex works and feels when you are alone, then you can go to your husband and bring him into the fun. |
What is wrong with doing anal the first time? honestly what Is so wrong with doing anal the first time? Is there a law that says you can't have anal sex the first time?? Im a girl and I was just wondering |
| think it hurts too much |
Any couples have good or bad experiences with first time anal sex with husband? any women leery at first only to find the enjoy it. My wife is not sure of the idea but wants to try. |
well has she used toys or anything back there? if not maybe buy her one, maybe use it on her but go slow and maybe use it as ur doing oral, or at least giving some attention to her cl it, rubbing it, fingering her, that way she is more relaxed as your doing it and then if she is ok with it, try it. make sure to use plenty of lube, this site has lots of cheap stuff.
and while doing it till she gets use to the feeling of it she will feel like she has to go to the bathroom and lol its very umcomfy with the fear of that, so if she tells you she has to go to the bathroom, let her and then try again when she comes back if you want,
but after getting use to it it does actually feel pretty good, its so diff than the vagina, i do prefer vaginal sex over anal, but it still feels good, |